By Stig Editor 
How Amy Lee’s Husband Changed Her Life and Her Music Forever
For years, fans have been mesmerized by Amy Lee’s haunting vocals and emotional lyrics as the frontwoman of Evanescence. But behind the gothic glamour and powerhouse performances is a deeply personal love story one that not only changed her life, but also shaped some of her most iconic music.
Meet Josh Hartzler
Josh Hartzler isn’t a rockstar, but he’s been the inspiration behind one of Amy Lee’s biggest hits. A professional therapist with a creative streak, Josh has also dabbled in photography and songwriting. Long before they became a couple, Josh was already in Amy’s life and unknowingly became the muse for “Bring Me to Life”, the 2003 track that catapulted Evanescence into global fame.
From Friends to Forever
Amy and Josh first crossed paths through mutual friends and stayed connected over the years. Their friendship evolved into romance in late 2005, and it wasn’t long before they made things official. Amy announced their engagement in January 2007, and just four months later, on May 6, 2007, the two exchanged vows in an intimate ceremony at Amy’s family home in Little Rock, Arkansas.
A Creative Power Couple
While Josh keeps a low public profile, he’s played a quiet but significant role in Amy’s career. He co-wrote tracks for her 2016 children’s album Dream Too Much, and even photographed the cover art for Evanescence’s 2021 album The Bitter Truth. Their marriage is built on shared creativity, respect, and unwavering support the kind of behind-the-scenes partnership that allows artists to thrive.
Building a Family
In July 2014, the couple welcomed their first child, Jack Lion Hartzler, into the world. Motherhood brought a new depth to Amy’s music and inspired her to take on projects that reflected her softer, more playful side. In 2019, the family traded the buzz of New York for the creative calm of Nashville, Tennessee.
A Love That Lasts
In the unpredictable world of fame, Amy and Josh’s relationship stands out as a rare example of stability and genuine connection. It’s a love story rooted in friendship, mutual respect, and the kind of deep understanding that doesn’t just inspire songs it sustains a life together.
From muse to husband, from therapist to creative partner, Josh Hartzler hasn’t just been part of Amy Lee’s personal journey he’s been part of her artistic one, too. And for fans, that makes their love story just as unforgettable as the music.